You can never be perfect for someone. You can’t force others to love you and you can definitely ask yourself a million times why? And you can never understand it unless you learn to accept that it is just a fact. We all have our own preferences in life. We have the standards that at times may change but oftentimes we just failed to acknowledge that it is always there.
There are always these rambling thoughts in my head about you. I thought I’ve been over it and I really thought I am. I guess not? I am not sure. If there would be regrets, I’d say there is a little. Or is it just me that seems to notice those little awkward moments we never had before? Those little things I am so used to and suddenly I thought were gone or slowly fading away.
Why do I always end up being so emotional when I think about you? I forced myself to believe that everything is fine. I keep looking at things the way they should be and that to care so much is enough. To expect that everything stays the same is a classic wish only kids do.
We can never be enough for someone who never looks at us the same way we do. No matter how much we give or share. Things can never love the way we love a person for whatever that reason is. We have standards that dictate our preferences. Simple! The vision we see from our heads. The vision we see other people beyond the physical aesthetics.
We should be used to this expectation from others. It is always there and we can’t beg someone to live up to your expectation in the same way they can’t ask you to live up to theirs. In an ideal and perfect world, nobody gets judged. Nobody sees your imperfections and flaws in life. You are who you are and no debate about race, color, status quo, and gender identity. Life is but a dream as the song goes, wake up and embrace the reality of the world; of your world. Accept that people change and go. Accept the truth that love is wonderful and tragic at the same time. If you can’t deal with that then life does not owe you anything. You have to be strong for yourself and for those who love and believe in you. You may falter at times but make sure to pick up your phase and move on. Work on things that simply make you happy. Sooner or later you will realize that time has lapsed so fast. If you let yourself be a slave of your emotions you can never accomplish a thing. Love yourself like I would always say. People may never agree to your standards and will judge you for all they want. They may never see your worth the way others do but never lose the power to believe in yourself. You are what you are that make your friends like you. Never be discouraged by one person and think that you are not good enough. You are precious and you are meant for someone who will accept you and love you like nobody else will.
Sometimes life can get so crazy and can be very ironic, I tell you. But that is just the way it is. We love someone who can never love us back and someone would want to offer you the universe but you can’t see how much
they value its worth. Learn to accept these things as it happens in different forms and times. Stop comparing yourself to others as you were not made to be identical with anybody else in this world. Let’s appreciate the things that make us happy genuinely. Live up to your own standards. Expect less from others. Laugh often and love always! Only then we can say that love is a perfect reason to live. And to live we will learn to accept that no matter how imperfect your life or your relationship is. Life gives you hope to love a person unconditionally.
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