1. You have annoyed or drained me, and I simply can’t keep up with your energy. Although I acted as if it didn’t bother me, since INFJ can act as if they are extroverts, I was heavily relieved leaving your presence and/or energy which enabled me to cut you off.
2. If I intuitively picked on a misaligned intention - for example, you talk negatively about other people constantly I will perceive that as untrustworthy, and someone I cannot talk to within a sincere manner. I don’t feel like I owe an explanation or a desire to waste my time with these types of people.
3. You said something rude, unjust, or off-putting to me, and although I played it cool, I saw right through your action and your intention and why you said or did that - and if I don’t like what I see I cut you off.
4. You talk too much about nothingness - you don’t know how to just observe and listen, or have a deeper understanding of situations and you lack insight - and there’s no intellectual spark I cut you off.
5. You pry too much - or ask too many personal questions, before really knowing me, and you feel entitled to know about my personal life, without earning your way into my inner world. You’re cut off.
6. You become clingy and annoying, and you want me to explain to you constantly why I don’t answer my phone or why I don’t text back instantly. You also want to hang out 4 times a week - you’re cut off.
7. You simply give me a bad vibe, without pinpointing out why logically. My intuition will speak to me more strongly than what you say, do, act or try to come across. We see right through the bullshit rapidly. You’re cut off.
8. You try to mold me, or try to impose your will on me - you must remember INFJ have a much more fixed quality than other intuitive due to that J. We are not one to try to mold or shape, we are very persistent in what we believe and are not easily influenced. If you try to be that influencer, manipulating your ideas and concepts onto us - we will see that as insincere - you’re cut off.
9. You’re into materialism and flashiness and you base your worth on those things - we see you as a sad inept individual with little self-esteem and we disassociate with people like that - you’re cut off.
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